GIRLS

(An Opinion)

Today I would like to request to all girls please cooperate with me as yours best friend. As I implement so many things to change the conventional method, conservative people and generation gap. Now, I need yours help to change something by friendship. Well dear as we all know why girls getting good marks in the exam rather than boys. I know there is some certain reason and reason is boys didn’t concentrates in study but most of the time boys running behind you. Now, you have to do is make a friendship but don’t play mind game.

During teen age there is infatuation or attraction in such a way that sometimes it creates lots of problem and result boys didn’t concentrates in their studies. Have friendship but you all have to do is teach them (boys) as a friend in need and friend in deed. There is no harm to have any kind of relationship with opposite gender but there should be creativity and it can use as help to helpless.

The relationship develops either in co- education schools, colleges or during coaching classes, but I think there should be a friendship for creativity and not a mind game. As I come to know about some girls if they have restrictions at home they want to react as they seen in any movie watching on TV. Could you please tell me one thing, you have restrictions at home that’s why watching TV, and that is only yours remedy but on the other hand I don’t think every one require to watching TV and they (boys) will give you reply as you had seen in any movie? No I don’t think so.

According to a survey Boys Learn From Experience Not From The Books Or TV That Girls Read And Watch Taking As Their Basis Of Experience.

However, in my opinion if we give up the movie a girl can be a good teacher by friendship because before she get marry there are so many restriction by their parents at home, like how to speak, what to speak, where to sit, how to walk and most attractive way to behave. Boys are free from such a things because of communication gap with parents as I know a girl shares their all problems with parents but as far as boys are concern neither parents have time for their son nor their son have time to share own problems with parents. But on the other hand boys shares their problems with either male friends or seeking a relationship with girl and here develop a relationship, may be some call it infatuation, attraction or fall in love. During this period some lift up their career with the help of such relationship but most of them jump into hole like prince jump into the boring well. That’s why I think during teen age it should be a duty of parents that listen their son too as they listen their daughter. 

Sorry to say but as I remember one movie named Sharabi and remember one dialog.

Munshi jee ye sab aapki wajah se hua hai,

Aap ne hin kaha tha agar bat mein wajan lana ho toh life mein kisi aurat ka hona jaruri hai.

Salla bat mein wajan badhate badhate apna hin wajan kum ho gaya.

Ye sab aapki wajah se hua hai.

Anyway, now come to the point, where we were, ya we were talking about relationship, by which girls getting good marks in CBSC Board Examination but boys always fell down. Is this some kind of respect for girls, good marks are reserve for girls/ladies like seat reserve only for ladies in buses? That’s why now girls have to play two roles with boys, one is only friendship and another is teacher but with friendship.

Regards,

Ravinesh Kumar